And a nice and very serious looking young man explained me how to make the ‘love medicine’. I will share the recipe with you as who knows when it may come in handy for one of you. Scrape some powder of the scull of a monkey and add some herbs and water. Put 7 drops in your right hand and whisper your name and the name of the person you love 7 times in your hand palm. Then -quickly- invite the person you love and shake his or her hand. And for sure he or she will fall in love with you right away and you will live happily ever after. Unfortunately he didn’t say which herbs exactly, so I have to do some research on that.
zondag 28 november 2010
To go to Togo
zaterdag 20 november 2010
Winter sun

According to most expats here ‘only people that really love you come to visit you in Ghana’ as opposed to those who come when you are based in Kenya, Fiji or New York. Apparently in such a place you may as well open up a travel company and hotel because you get visitors every week. However, with this picture I’m guessing that in the next few months perhaps I will find out more people love me during winter than in summer.
woensdag 10 november 2010
Out in Africa
vrijdag 15 oktober 2010
Into the Upper Wild West

zaterdag 2 oktober 2010
Opening Prayer
“Who is volunteering to do the opening prayer of the meeting today?” During this question I’m always very busy finding something unknown in my purse under my table. It’s the question I fear the most. I even prefer: “ who is volunteering to write the minutes of the meeting today?”. Technically I shouldn’t be scared, as praying is pretty straight forward and pragmatic here. It goes more or less like this:

donderdag 30 september 2010
Shrimp

A few weeks ago I had the huge privilege to accompany C while the doctor was putting some scary ultrasound thing inside her to check out the little shrimp. It moved it’s little arms and legs, like it was dancing a little dance. And I was speechless. Suddenly I got it. Why women take a million pictures when it’s born. Why they change their facebook profile picture in a picture of their baby. Why it’s all they talk about. And all other somewhat bit annoying symptoms of newly mothers. It’s all because it is freaking amazing.
By now the little shrimp is actually not even a big gamba anymore. It’s a little boy. Most likely. And he is as big as a large orange. How amazing is that?!
maandag 13 september 2010
Superstition in the night

And then, with first the red header slowly appearing on the screen, I go over the headlines and breathe out. And I thank God, Allah, the Universe. Only a hurricane, deaths in the Middle East and an increased risk for thousands of children to die from cholera last night.